Congratulations, Grace!

As the sun sets on one chapter and rises on another, high school graduates stand at the threshold of a transformative journey. My daughter Grace, captured in these vibrant portraits through the lens of Love Preserved Photography, embodies this moment of transition. With her heart set on Hillsdale College, where she’ll explore a rich core curriculum, continue her passion for singing as a 1st Soprano, and dive deeper into ancient and modern languages, Grace’s story is one of promise and purpose. As a mother and photographer, I pour my love into every frame, capturing not just images but the essence of who my clients are as they step into new seasons. Today, I’m sharing 10 pieces of advice for Grace and all high school graduates, blending practical skills, leadership principles, and timeless wisdom to inspire human flourishing and the pursuit of God’s purpose. These words are for you—graduates and parents alike—as you embark on this exciting path, and I hope the portraits of Grace woven throughout inspire you to preserve your own memories in the next chapter you are embarking on.

1. Cultivate Curiosity and Lifelong Learning

The world is a vast tapestry of knowledge waiting for you to explore. Curiosity is the spark that fuels lifelong learning, a skill that will keep you adaptable in an ever-changing world. At Hillsdale, Grace will immerse herself in a classical core curriculum, asking big questions about truth, beauty, and goodness. Embrace this mindset: read widely, question deeply, and seek wisdom beyond the classroom. Whether you’re studying philosophy or physics, let curiosity guide you to uncover God’s intricate design in every discipline.

Portrait Moment: In Grace’s portrait, her thoughtful gaze reflects a mind eager to learn. At Love Preserved Photography, I capture these moments of quiet curiosity, preserving the spark of discovery for years to come.

2. Embrace Creative Thinking to Solve Problems

Creative thinking isn’t just for artists—it’s a vital skill for navigating life’s challenges. Whether you’re crafting a solution to a complex problem or finding new ways to express your faith, creativity allows you to see possibilities where others see obstacles. For Grace, this might mean blending her love for choral singing and opera with her studies, creating something uniquely her own. Practice thinking outside the box, and let your imagination reflect the Creator’s boundless ingenuity.

3. Build Resilience, Flexibility, and Agility

Life is unpredictable, and resilience is your anchor in the storm. Flexibility and agility allow you to adapt to new circumstances, whether it’s a change in major or an unexpected challenge. As Admiral William McRaven advises in his “Make Your Bed” speech, start each day with a small task—like making your bed—to build discipline and resilience. These habits prepare you to face setbacks with grace and keep moving toward your purpose, just as Grace will navigate her journey at Hillsdale with determination.

Portrait Moment: Grace’s radiant smile in this portrait, taken amidst the golden sun, captures her resilience and joy. At Love Preserved Photography, I strive to freeze these moments of strength, creating images that remind you of your inner fortitude.

4. Seek Excellent Mentors

Surround yourself with mentors who inspire and challenge you. From professors to choir directors, seek those who model wisdom, character, and faith. Grace plans to take voice lessons to hone her soprano skills, learning from experts who will shape her craft. Find mentors in academics, spirituality, and personal growth who can guide you toward God’s calling. Their wisdom will illuminate your path and help you grow into the person you’re meant to be.

5. Develop Leadership and Social Influence

Leadership isn’t about titles—it’s about inspiring others through your actions and words. Social influence grows from authenticity and empathy, skills that allow you to connect and uplift those around you. As Grace steps into Hillsdale’s community, she’ll have opportunities to lead through her involvement in choir or language studies. Practice leading by example, whether in a group project or a campus ministry, and let your influence reflect Christ’s love and humility.

Portrait Moment: In this portrait, Grace’s poised presence radiates confidence and warmth. At Love Preserved Photography, I capture the essence of leadership in every senior, creating images that showcase their potential to impact the world.

6. Cultivate Friendships Through Shared Moments

True friendships are a cornerstone of human flourishing. Build bonds by eating meals together, cooking with friends, praying as a group, or attending church. These shared experiences create a foundation of trust and joy. Grace’s love for singing will likely lead her to connect with others in Hillsdale’s choir, forging lifelong friendships through harmony and faith. Invest in these relationships—they’ll sustain you through this new chapter and beyond.

7. Practice Empathy and Active Listening

Empathy and active listening are powerful skills that deepen relationships and foster understanding. By truly hearing others, you reflect God’s love and create space for meaningful connection. As Grace engages with classmates from diverse backgrounds, these skills will help her build a community rooted in compassion. Practice listening without interrupting, and seek to understand others’ perspectives—it’s a skill that will serve you in every area of life.

Portrait Moment: Grace’s gentle expression in this portrait captures her empathetic spirit. At Love Preserved Photography, I aim to highlight the heart of every senior, creating images that tell their unique story of compassion and connection.

8. Document Your Journey Through Journaling and Photography

Your college years are a time of growth and discovery—capture them. Journaling helps you process your thoughts and discern God’s purpose, while photography preserves the moments that shape you. Grace’s portraits, taken by Love Preserved Photography, are more than images; they’re a record of her heart at this pivotal moment. Start a journal to reflect on your experiences, and consider working with a photographer who pours love into every shot to document your journey.

Portrait Moment: I loved capturing beautiful memories for Grace’s 18th birthday at our favorite library in San Antonio. We used to go to this library during our homeschool years. At Love Preserved Photography, I create timeless portraits that preserve your story, inviting you to relive these moments for years to come.

9. Hone Analytical Thinking and Data Analytics

In a world driven by information, analytical thinking and data analytics are essential skills. Whether you’re studying literature or science, the ability to analyze patterns and draw conclusions will set you apart. Grace’s passion for Latin and Greek will require her to dissect complex texts, a form of analytical thinking that mirrors data analysis. Embrace opportunities to work with data, whether in a class project or a future career, and use these skills to uncover truth and make informed decisions.

10. Pursue Motivation, Self-Awareness, and Talent Management

Understanding your motivations and strengths is key to thriving. Self-awareness helps you align your choices with God’s purpose, while talent management means nurturing your gifts and those of others. Grace’s journey at Hillsdale will involve exploring her calling, balancing her love for singing with her academic pursuits. Reflect on what drives you, set goals that honor your talents, and encourage others to do the same. This approach will lead to a life of purpose and impact.

Portrait Moment: In her school portrait, Grace’s vibrant energy shines as she looks toward the future. At Love Preserved Photography, I capture the unique spark of every graduate, creating images that celebrate their individuality and potential.

A Final Word

As you step into this new chapter, dear graduates, remember that your journey is about more than achievements—it’s about becoming who God created you to be. Like Grace, embrace curiosity, resilience, and empathy. Seek mentors, build friendships, and document your story. Let your life reflect the classical ideals of truth, beauty, and goodness, and trust that God’s purpose will unfold in His perfect timing.

At Love Preserved Photography, I’m passionate about capturing these transformative moments. Each portrait is a labor of love, designed to celebrate your unique journey and inspire those who see it. If you’re a parent of a 2026 senior, I’d be honored to work with you to create timeless images that reflect your graduate’s heart and potential. Visit Love Preserved Photography to book a session, and let’s preserve these memories together.

With love and blessings for your new chapter,

Tracy Gardner, PhD